Which comments by davejay were best answers in Ask MetaFilter?

DatePost
2019-07-03How to decline a job offer?
2019-02-15Drinking the Kool-Aid
2018-07-22I can haz civil, healthy anger?
2018-06-03Miss Manners Filter: When is it rude to ask for a favor?
2017-12-22I'M NOT ANGRY!!!
2017-08-15Just to be abundantly clear, there is no porn stash
2017-08-15Just to be abundantly clear, there is no porn stash
2017-07-27Developing healthy relationship skills
2014-04-08How young is too young for dyed hair?
2014-03-28Should we seek additional help?
2014-03-20How do I talk to my daughter about pulling her out of ballet classes?
2014-03-17How to quell impending blog doom from Aunt Lisa
2014-03-05I need new tires for my Subaru, but am overwhelmed by the choices
2014-02-13Dealing with loss of friendshp
2014-02-08How do you stop thinking of something that still hurts?
2014-02-07apology vs. regret
2014-01-21I'm considering getting a crested gecko - should I?
2014-01-17Creative, ADD-friendly jobs that do not require much multitasking?
2014-01-17Managing large (9 ppl) software teams?
2014-01-16Reacting Emotionally to work
2013-12-13The ex is reaching out...
2013-12-03New relationship - advice on meeting her child for the first time?
2013-12-02Painting question-- two colors, uneven surfaces -- paint up or down?
2013-11-01My future just doesn't fit anymore
2013-10-30How do I inspire a hungry imagination?
2013-10-22well, hell
2013-10-22Just fix the damn thing and leave my personal life out of it
2013-07-17Do latest-generation external hard drives work seamlessly?
2013-07-12How to stop dating
2013-07-12How to stop dating
2013-06-27Vegan cooling: Mirrors on the roof?
2013-06-26What made 911 fail?
2013-06-20How to appreciate my boyfriend
2013-06-18am i obligated to invite a (horrible) mutual friend to a party?
2013-05-30Heart advice for difficult times?
2013-05-28Was this an abnormal thing to do?
2013-05-14Do I have some sort of recourse against Ford?
2013-05-06My child will be in Depends at his 2032 freshman orientation.
2013-03-20Is ice skating really that good an exercise for the beginner?
2013-03-20Is ice skating really that good an exercise for the beginner?
2013-03-20Is ice skating really that good an exercise for the beginner?
2013-03-14No Boys Allowed!
2013-02-27How did you let go and forgive after a loss and a breakup?
2013-02-26Stubbornness as a virtue / character flaw
2013-01-17my employer is fucking me over. what can i do?
2013-01-02Help me fight the war between my head and heart.
2012-12-12Help Me Feed the Need to Spread My Seed
2012-10-30Loose oil cap fix?
2012-10-11How to deal with a hopeless dreamer?
2012-09-24I'm thinking of breaking up with you because you're depressed. Yes, I am just that awful.
2012-09-11Self-help without the corporate/consumerist propaganda
2012-09-11A first dance is not unreasonable!
2012-09-04Divorce & Disease
2012-08-30Of Fathers and Sons and DNA
2012-08-29Good toys to encourage a two-year-old to play by herself?
2012-08-28Where should a Chicago girl move?
2012-08-22Torn between shielding my daughter and needing her help
2012-08-16making friends in a second language
2012-08-09What can I do about the cars honking at the school bus?
2012-07-31Thanks Mom but no.
2012-07-27I love you, now here is all my money.
2012-07-13I need help understaing how to use a professional stage mic/line mixer.
2012-07-12A Rose by Any Other etcetera, etcetera, etcetera...
2012-06-19'cause i'm mr brightside
2012-06-06Do it now, save it for later, what in the world to say?
2012-05-16iPad + ? = music
2012-05-16iPad + ? = music
2012-05-16Don't argue with me!
2012-05-16How best to sell a junker car?
2012-05-16Dear in the Dealership Headlights
2012-05-08Am I just not cut out for the corporate world?
2012-04-24integrity of a digital recording
2012-04-23Why do sulkers sulk?
2012-04-14Songs with unreliable narrators?
2012-04-14We are musicians, and therefore broke - obviously we should sign any deal we get! Right? NO!!!
2012-04-13OMG your braid makes me so horny. (note: not really)
2012-04-11Gay male and gay male of color filter. How do I come to terms with my dating issues?
2012-04-10Should I help out a company that treated me very badly in the past?
2012-04-10Should I help out a company that treated me very badly in the past?
2012-03-29When should I consider coming down on condo asking price?
2012-03-01Mac question: Move forward? Stay pat? Start over?
2012-03-01Mac question: Move forward? Stay pat? Start over?
2011-11-22I hate AT&T.
2011-11-15How to Talk to a Teenager Through their First Breakup?
2011-11-02Maybe I'm just an asshole...
2011-09-23Sketchy business practice, or insurance S.O.P.?
2011-09-21'Do the birds have a constant vertical acceleration? Do they have constant horizontal velocity? Let’s find out, shall we.'
2011-09-12HOA headache
2011-09-02London bus engines - are they turbines?
2011-09-02Help me figure out the kitchen audio
2011-08-30How to be nice to annoying people
2011-08-26My doctor is leaving me. Should I follow?
2011-08-24Out going yet Socially Awkward around romantic interests.
2011-08-23I know Pandora wants to make money. Should I give it to them?
2011-08-23An honest job if I can find one
2011-08-23"So ""Rock""=Wild & ""Party""=Crazy, or..."
2011-08-23Miss Manners in the workplace?
2011-08-10In love and less... interesting?
2011-08-08why can't we be friends?
2011-08-08How to Tell My Family that I don`t want to Move Back
2011-08-03Help me... my car was totaled at the dealership!
2011-08-03Help me... my car was totaled at the dealership!
2011-08-03Help me... my car was totaled at the dealership!
2011-08-02What's the best solution to this car drama that may involve a tampered odometer?
2011-07-28Guitar for a 5-year old. Which one? Where to buy?
2011-07-20Soothe a Nerve
2011-07-12Why blue?
2011-05-24What do you think is the fairest way to handle rental applications?
2011-01-03Has web hosting become a commodity?
2010-11-29Will my check bounce?
2010-11-23Choosing a professional email address?
2010-11-15.htaccess redirects
2010-11-10Prank call and caller ID
2010-11-09Character Encoding Explanations for the Non-Developer
2010-11-09Character Encoding Explanations for the Non-Developer
2010-11-02Where can I find some colorful vocabulary?
2010-10-28Advice for Sleeping Beauty with Atrophied Wings
2010-10-27Where could 1,100 iTunes have gone off to?
2010-10-19Can't Sing but Cast in a Musical
2010-10-05marriage
2010-09-28hi ho, hi ho, it's off to work he goes (on a scooter?)
2010-09-22How to stay friends with both people in a break-up
2010-09-22Saw coworker sex video, not sure what to do
2010-09-16(the) road ends here
2010-09-16It was fine yesterday.
2010-09-15Should we bring our car seat on to the plane?
2010-09-14Kids Discussion So Soon?
2010-09-10Uhh.... so do I have a job or no?
2010-09-07How do I stop sucking at TFC and Counter-Strike?
2010-09-07Should I ask my ex to marry me?
2010-09-06How to cope as daughter’s absent father re-appears?
2010-09-06First time buyer--How do I make an offer on a condo?
2010-09-06First time buyer--How do I make an offer on a condo?
2010-09-06How to really get over a stupid text break up closure with a Flake? Still Mentally trapped and connected with this person because of that text please Help.
2010-09-06How to really get over a stupid text break up closure with a Flake? Still Mentally trapped and connected with this person because of that text please Help.
2010-09-06Secure remote access to home PC
2010-09-03Is my bathroom light fixture arcing?
2010-09-01"""Home is home, be it ever so humble”"
2010-08-26Want to start school and get our life on track, but how?
2010-08-26Can I create value in real estate?
2010-08-05Objecting to Objectivism
2010-08-05MMORPG Noob
2010-08-05MMORPG Noob
2010-08-05Help Me Help Her
2010-08-02Less money, more fun
2010-07-29My Best Friend's Girl
2010-07-27Has my toddler been damaged by forcible foreskin retraction?
2010-07-24Beeping smoke detector will not shut UP
2010-07-12I'll Give You Something to Resent Me For
2010-07-07Tacit golden rules for work
2010-07-07Tacit golden rules for work
2010-07-07Help me put my foot down with others and choose better friends in the future
2010-06-30Sincere ingratiation 101
2010-06-28The diary that we all carry about with us
2010-06-28The diary that we all carry about with us
2010-06-26How common are these css declarations?
2010-06-26How common are these css declarations?
2010-06-21Why are the names and addresses of jurors read out loud in court?
2010-06-11What should I do about a dog that is not supposed to live in the building?
2010-06-09Ok, bye then?
2010-06-09Arguing with women!
2010-06-04Is this relevant to my interests? [y][n]
2010-06-04Home-base hobby turning into business
2010-05-25Mommy's all right. Daddy's all right. They just seem a little weird...
2010-05-19"Trying to avoid ""Are you OK?"""
2010-05-18Should this be my summer project?
2010-04-27Cool Tenant Wanted
2010-04-22If you won't let me pay you, you better like cookies...
2010-04-16take it easy
2010-04-13Creative office hiding places for an ongoing coworker prank?
2010-04-12How to deal with a bipolar alcoholic sister
2010-04-05What regular service is necessary for a 2008 Honda Civic?
2010-04-02"How important is being ""in love"" to a happy marriage? What's the difference between love vs ""in love"" vs limerance?"
2010-03-26"""Don't Use This Company""...or so I say."
2010-03-26Why do Word and Excel for Mac OS 10 open as read-only?
2010-03-07When do we return the rental flute and buy?
2010-03-02DirecTV electrical issues?
2010-02-12Grouping technology skills on a resume
2010-02-11Did a robot call and take over my iPhone?
2010-01-25Make Up Your Mind!
2010-01-13USB Hub recommendations wanted!
2010-01-11"Is there a tag for ""awkwardness""?"
2010-01-05How do I keep my raging lust in check while getting to know someone?
2009-12-27Help me help my 7-yr-old appreciate what she has.
2009-12-266 GB of mixed-speed RAM better or worse than 4 GB of matched pair faster RAM?
2009-12-20Sketchy journalism & littering
2009-12-11Help me stage some photographs of a very mischievious paper butterfly!
2009-12-10"Something more descriptive than ""Oww."""
2009-12-04Is This Really Death Metal... For My Car?
2009-12-02Muscles without reinventing myself
2009-11-19The stupidest miracle
2009-11-12What should I get my Grandpa?
2009-10-30Water Heater/Oil Burner Question
2009-10-21What version are we on now?
2009-10-06Fiber optics for dummies
2009-08-29Run wacky cable or buy a whole new gaming pc?
2009-08-24Professional Response In Relation To Private Situation?
2009-07-28Assaulted on a bicycle, what should I have done?
2009-07-28Is it possible to help someone become a better communicator/conversationalist without offending him?
2009-07-23To me do really is a deer, a female deer ...