Which comments by salvia were best answers in Ask MetaFilter from 2012-01-01 through now?

DatePost
2020-02-13My memoir was accepted for publication but I'm nixing it. YAY or NAY?
2020-02-08I can feel my heart chakra? Now what??
2020-02-02What should I be when I grow up?
2020-01-01Seasonal wildlife events in the San Francisco Bay area?
2019-11-16Got a new job offer. Can someone help me out deciding?
2019-11-10should I stay or... you know the gist
2019-10-08Help me not ruin my hiking vacation
2019-07-29Too Many Passions and Butt in Chair Problems
2019-07-26How can I briefly stall on an offer? I'm working with recruiters.
2019-06-05"Are ""interest-free"" cell phone purchase plans REALLY interest-free?"
2019-06-04Finding a TED talk about war, community and feelings of belongingness
2019-06-01Mistake on Taxes
2019-04-26What are the benefits of giving out an address that isn't yours?
2019-03-08Advice on making a career move to climate change education/outreach
2019-02-05Risk averse parents who use emotional blackmail
2018-12-29How can I strengthen my relationship with my younger sister-in-law?
2018-12-29Exercising better down where it's wetter
2018-12-28Exercising better down where it's wetter
2018-12-23Quit playing with fire!!
2018-12-21Tell me when it's decorative gourd season, motherfuckers!
2018-11-22Coping with narcissistic houseguest
2018-11-22Coping with narcissistic houseguest
2018-11-20Should I cut my losses or give friendship a chance?
2018-10-29I was uncomfortable, but I couldn't say why. Help me figure this out!
2018-10-29I was uncomfortable, but I couldn't say why. Help me figure this out!
2018-10-05Hey there, can I borrow the product of your blood, sweat and tears?
2018-10-02Please give me resources on CPTSD (YNM mental health professional)
2018-09-12Going to law school in your 40s: Worst idea ever?
2018-09-08Afraid of bringing mold into new apartment
2018-08-13Dating on the Other Side of the Train Tracks
2018-07-12Worried about my sick father in another state...
2018-07-09Please answer the question
2018-06-23Best Way to Approach Former Work Acquaintance Now at 'Menial' Job?
2018-06-16Rumination, rumination, rumination
2018-06-15You're not the piano man
2018-06-15You're not the piano man
2018-06-12You can't do that on work time
2018-06-04My employer eliminated my dept today. What do I do now?
2018-06-01Just been thrown out of my friend's house; I was rude, but now what?
2018-05-30Find my tribe or climb the ladder?
2018-05-13Relationship troubles at a boiling point
2018-04-21Toxic employee strikes again!
2018-04-17How to write personal letter as a single home buyer?
2018-04-02Pros and cons of a 9-5 job
2018-03-22Camper van living
2018-03-17Got some extra $, best charity?
2018-03-06chemistry, desires, connection, the slog of dating
2018-03-06I am desperately bored.
2018-03-03Advice on reconnecting with a 14yo niece after her mom’s death
2018-02-04Encouraging a relation to better face their spouse's cancer?
2018-01-27I can't; I'm busy in 2023.
2018-01-15Late 20s adult woman suffering from teenage-like crush needs help
2018-01-10Break our hearts now, later or something else?
2018-01-09Break our hearts now, later or something else?
2017-12-31How to not ANGRY at mildly wrong spouse?
2017-12-31How to not ANGRY at mildly wrong spouse?
2017-12-01What are other words that are both birds and non-birds?
2017-11-30Roommate moving sooner than expected and it feels...not nice
2017-11-29moving forward, but towards different goals
2017-11-27How can I honestly be there for my mother?
2017-11-20Does split bills = cheap ? ( asking for splitting within 3rd dates)
2017-11-19What to do with my (literal) emotional baggage?
2017-11-13I hurt a friend and I'm not sure how to proceed
2017-11-07I abandoned my career and I don't know what to do next.
2017-11-01How to decline a job offer, edition 876
2017-10-19How do I detoxify my marriage?
2017-10-19Actual best way to clean e.g. extensive tile floors, stone showers, etc?
2017-10-11I love you...sober you
2017-09-27How to help an 11yo kid escape from a malignant narcissist parent?
2017-09-22"What's the best way to ""cool down"" a relationship (poly)"
2017-09-12This back and forth is killing me!
2017-08-30Should I take this job offer?
2017-08-25Please help me unpack this
2017-08-05down to my last fraying wires, practical steps needed
2017-07-22Montezombie
2017-07-21My love language is quality time - his may not be/not a planner. Help!
2017-06-14How can I become more sex positive and embrace sexuality after trauma?
2017-05-23How do I get over my insecurities?
2017-05-22Neighbor's kitty is cute and sweet and neglected - what to do?
2017-04-17I need to get psychological help but I'm afraid of not having job
2017-04-16How to get career and life advice - fast!
2017-03-24Name the Blog - Round 367!
2017-03-17How do I fill out my self-assessment in appropriate corporate-speak?
2017-02-21Friends til the end?
2017-02-20Just cough it up!
2017-02-04Supporting depressed friend in abusive relationship, and protecting self
2017-02-02Yes, Boss I'd like to work on the proj- zzz zzz zzz
2017-01-27Will my book club turn into a job interview?
2017-01-14Need pragmatic advice for a friend who is suffering spousal abuse
2017-01-13NPD FIL's birthday dinner - shutting down pessimism
2017-01-13NPD FIL's birthday dinner - shutting down pessimism
2016-12-27How to get over what I may or may not have done to my fiance?
2016-12-27How to get over what I may or may not have done to my fiance?
2016-12-24how to wait tables?
2016-12-20How to call out and back out of disingenuous political conversation
2016-11-30Can you talk me down from my anxiety?
2016-11-30Can you talk me down from my anxiety?
2016-11-25Sitcoms where the characters get to progress toward their goals?
2016-11-24gift idea future bro-in-law
2016-11-24gift idea future bro-in-law
2016-10-21Is this bullshit or am I nuts? Workplace edition.
2016-10-11Ever seen red flags that weren't actually red flags?
2016-09-22How do you move beyond betrayal?
2016-09-20How do you move beyond betrayal?
2016-09-17Work life balance between spouses
2016-09-09Friends with an ex's BFF?
2016-09-02Parenting (?) Dilemma
2016-08-26Questions for experts on domestic violence.
2016-07-19Halp me choose an inexpensive laptop
2016-06-22Snappy comebacks for when people joke about my name
2016-06-09things to do to avoid slipping back into troubled relationship
2016-06-07Renting in San Francisco - Young and Broke edition.
2016-05-22Please help me stop reading Seveneves
2016-05-22Grief at work
2016-05-19California Dreamin': Road Trip Edition
2016-05-09can I make a living writing grants?
2016-05-05Is my OKCupid okay, cupids?
2016-05-05Is my OKCupid okay, cupids?
2016-02-02Some of my coworkers are incompetent. Help me be less annoyed by them.
2016-01-07Resources for healing a troubled community group
2016-01-05Scared for my puppy, please help!
2015-12-27How do you determine whom to talk to when the depression returns?
2015-12-26How to be okay with the ex-wife at Christmas (and other family events)
2015-12-13Tell me this isn't limerence
2015-12-11One damn thing after another, right?
2015-12-09End of an intimate relationship. How do I stay positive?
2015-12-01365 days of intentional outdoor activity for Xmas
2015-11-20Interview filter: how to negotiate questions about diversity?
2015-09-27Getting closer with a work friend when you have a bit of a crush too...
2015-09-12Moving in together: boring, practical, preliminary edition
2015-09-12Question about rock climbing etiquette
2015-09-10Can stress make you reconsider relationships?
2015-09-07navigating work in non-profits
2015-09-02When to start a family - how to find our bearings?
2015-09-01I like big butts and I cannot lie...
2015-08-29The best way to structure a relationship hiatus?
2015-08-27I have to cancel last minute on attending a wedding. How to communicate?
2015-06-25They don't want to be in Supper Club anymore, but won't say it
2015-05-17As an introvert, I struggle to meet women outside of work
2015-04-21Strategies to overcome insecurity/jealousy of husband's female friend?
2015-04-18"""You can't handle the truth!"" But I need to learn how to..."
2015-04-15Same-field-friends, sensitive to each other's success or lack thereof...
2015-04-11Married and having dreams about exes. What to do?
2015-04-07Should I accept a risky (but fun) job or stay at my decent, stable job?
2015-03-29Maintaining anonymity/privacy with multiple Twitter accounts
2015-03-07What would people want to salvage from ruins of the global warming?
2015-03-06How do you change your style of motivation?
2015-03-05Boyfriend bad juju beanplating
2015-03-04Why can't I get/keep a job?
2015-02-28Isolating myself as a reaction to work stress
2015-02-20Addicted, Adopted and Felon
2015-02-02Are bedbugs really endemic on Long Island?
2015-01-31How do you leave work at work?
2015-01-30How to get someone to STFU and go away
2015-01-30How to get someone to STFU and go away
2015-01-29How to get someone to STFU and go away
2015-01-22Alarm clock anxiety
2015-01-19How to handle this carpet damage vis-a-vis my landlords?
2015-01-09Dear prof, you're the only helpful member of my committee. Please leave.
2015-01-09Talking to My Narcissist Parents After a Psych Hospitalization
2014-12-30Dealing with the fact that someone you loved was not who you thought?
2014-12-28How to improve my relationship with my mom
2014-12-22How to deal with not dealing with things well
2014-12-21What should the future with my ex look like?
2014-12-15Never mix friends and business! Lesson learned.
2014-12-13Made a mistake last night - how to improve the situation
2014-12-12My sister constantly asks me if I'm okay
2014-12-11"Is this what ""goal accomplished"" should feel like?"
2014-11-22How do we holiday?
2014-11-20Boyfriend doesn't want to live together. Am I deluding myself?
2014-11-11Could you give me tips on navigating hostilities at work?
2014-11-03Almost-instant meals
2014-10-24How best to protect a child when my ex brings him into our arguments?
2014-10-24Can you explain how feelings work?
2014-09-18Two polar opposite friends clashing, who would've guessed?
2014-09-18Self- sabotage: A beast with two heads
2014-08-22I'm either insulted or over reacting
2014-08-19How to deal with the anxiety of approaching my late 20s
2014-07-03Helping him but not forcing it
2014-07-03Family suicide complicated by lack of communication: is it ADHD?
2014-06-28gimmie shelter
2014-05-07How much did I contribute to my mom staying in her abusive marriage?
2014-05-07How much did I contribute to my mom staying in her abusive marriage?
2014-05-04Should my husband acknowledge his son's graduation?
2014-05-01How can I practice gratitude while recognizing and fighting injustice?
2014-05-01Great job or great organization?
2014-04-19should I attend estranged sister's babyshower?
2014-04-02Quick to anger, implode and then shake really bad
2014-03-25Can this relationship be saved?
2014-03-25Can this relationship be saved?
2014-03-07What do you do when reason fails?
2014-03-01How to endure a physically exhausting and mentally draining job?
2014-02-25How best to handle moving out technically TONIGHT?
2014-02-25How best to handle moving out technically TONIGHT?
2014-02-24How best to handle moving out technically TONIGHT?
2014-01-07Ah, the joys of beanplating
2014-01-06SO's Sick mother- not sure how to deal with her asking my SO to move in
2013-12-21Feel good movies and TV shows.
2013-12-17Unexpected TEENAGE guest for the holidays?
2013-11-22Help me be a good therapist!