| Date | Comments | User | Post |
|---|
| 2011-01-04 | 220 | otherwordlyglow | Would you mind taking your shoes off? |
| 2010-09-15 | 170 | pauldonato | Not-obvious things you shouldn't say to women |
| 2010-09-27 | 157 | Nickel Pickle | Should I pay to replace a rude guest's shawl? |
| 2009-03-25 | 136 | MaryDellamorte | Would this offend you? |
| 2005-11-17 | 132 | Anonymous | Baby on Board(room) |
| 2012-12-20 | 126 | raspberry-ripple | I'm not Mrs Him! |
| 2007-04-03 | 113 | marble | Grocery store line etiquette |
| 2005-01-17 | 112 | bunglin jones | "Is it misogynistic to use the ""C-word?""" |
| 2005-06-20 | 111 | notsnot | Leaving the toilet seat up? |
| 2013-05-21 | 106 | badgermushroomSNAKE | Getting married after getting married: the insurance-panic edition |
| 2016-04-13 | 104 | corb | Help me avoid the WASP trap. |
| 2004-12-24 | 103 | Jenesta | How do deal with racially-based questions about appearance? |
| 2009-10-10 | 99 | desjardins | Excuse me, are you from around here? |
| 2005-01-20 | 96 | profwhat | As an atheist, what should I do while others pray? |
| 2011-07-28 | 94 | Admiral Haddock | The bathroom is supposed to be my happy place, not your spittoon/shower/fartatorium |
| 2014-10-13 | 94 | Area Man | Shoes on or off in the house? |
| 2017-07-27 | 94 | sciatrix | please explain to me the purpose of bath mats? |
| 2013-09-30 | 92 | coppermoss | Am I breaking some unwritten cell phone rule? |
| 2009-10-10 | 91 | katybird | I'm from here! I swear! |
| 2016-07-11 | 90 | TestamentToGrace | stocking items for the boyfriend in my fridge |
| 2006-09-20 | 90 | bbrown | Implications in Ignoring IMs |
| 2007-10-15 | 90 | Anonymous | must I submit to monthly waxing torture? |
| 2018-11-23 | 88 | Neely O'Hara | Who DOES that?! |
| 2018-11-28 | 87 | pleasebekind | """Huh, I should do that.""" |
| 2019-07-12 | 86 | BadgerDoctor | Am I obligated to accomodate a surprise vegan houseguest? |
| 2012-09-13 | 85 | Miss T.Horn | I hear the espresso's really cheap in this joint |
| 2008-12-17 | 85 | dhammala | It should only take a minute, really. |
| 2011-02-08 | 83 | tatiana wishbone | "How can I politely rebut ""Everything happens for a reason""?" |
| 2011-02-28 | 83 | lpsguy | Is there an etiquette for reclining in the air? |
| 2010-08-01 | 81 | soonertbone | Trying to find the line between Good Samaritan and Creepy McCreeperson |
| 2010-02-24 | 80 | dchrssyr | If a customer service professional is wearing a nametag, should I use thier name? |
| 2009-08-26 | 80 | xo | New baby, new etiquette |
| 2005-03-08 | 79 | agregoli | Is it rude not to say, |
| 2017-08-04 | 79 | dreamphone | Keep out (please) |
| 2016-03-23 | 78 | Anonymous | He stopped talking to me abruptly and with no warning, now what? |
| 2007-02-05 | 78 | landedjentry | No longer rockin' the suburbs. |
| 2006-08-30 | 77 | wryly | Do younger people pay with folding money only? |
| 2012-02-14 | 77 | Anonymous | Is this a wedding or a fundraiser? |
| 2013-12-02 | 77 | pretentious illiterate | Is it irresponsible for me to keep my cell phone on 'silent' at night? |
| 2013-03-21 | 77 | Lately Gone | What was the most comforting condolence sentence you ever heard? |
| 2006-09-09 | 76 | Anonymous | Fighting fire with fire? |
| 2013-06-19 | 76 | d. z. wang | Is this an individual quirk or the norm for some group? |
| 2010-05-17 | 75 | yellowbinder | I hope every delicious bite was tainted by the shame of what a selfish person you are |
| 2019-02-21 | 75 | nightrecordings | An American Werewolf in Canada |
| 2004-08-13 | 74 | ChasFile | Is it ok to talk to someone on the phone while using the bathroom? |
| 2009-05-30 | 74 | Anonymous | asking the roommate to close the toilet lid |
| 2017-03-03 | 73 | unicornologist | Is this note left in our mailbox rude? It feels that way. |
| 2005-08-14 | 73 | rwhe | EtiquetteFilter: What do you do when someone refuses your wedding present? |
| 2013-01-15 | 73 | patheral | Call before dropping by, is this a regional thing? |
| 2011-01-24 | 72 | forza | Slightly late or slightly early? |
| 2011-05-11 | 71 | Anonymous | Am I being oversensitive about an unexpected dinner guest? |
| 2010-09-13 | 71 | shoppingforsanity | Wedding fashion woes |
| 2011-06-30 | 69 | Anonymous | Will a proposal steal the bride's thunder? |
| 2016-03-28 | 69 | daveg02 | Could I ask out a girl on ride-shares like lyft without sounding weird? |
| 2012-07-02 | 69 | pazazygeek | have i been an unwitting dick for years? |
| 2014-10-13 | 68 | waving | Why would he think it's OK to walk through my house with his boots on? |
| 2012-12-29 | 68 | baconandvodka | I like you, but I hate the gifts.. |
| 2007-08-23 | 68 | remthewanderer | Who pays for a wedding? |
| 2014-09-22 | 67 | nicolas léonard sadi carnot | Is a once/weekly houseguest too much if you're rarely out of the house? |
| 2018-09-21 | 67 | rocketbadger | Did I miss a day of etiquette school growing up? |
| 2016-03-30 | 67 | math | Email etiquette and expectations for night owls? |
| 2009-04-29 | 66 | dreamphone | Toilet lid etiquette |
| 2008-06-04 | 66 | [NOT HERMITOSIS-IST] | He's Not My Brother, Dammit. |
| 2010-10-19 | 65 | love is a murderer | Is turnaround fair play when it comes to weddings? |
| 2012-06-08 | 65 | oceanview | Late night text? Next! |
| 2012-01-13 | 65 | Under the Sea | Wedding etiquette regarding invites and rsvp |
| 2005-07-12 | 64 | Anonymous | Sleeping at work |
| 2022-05-12 | 64 | Dressed to Kill | Is saying “I’m proud of you” patronizing? |
| 2022-12-25 | 64 | PersonPerson | Can I skip this funeral? |
| 2023-08-29 | 63 | saturday_morning | Digital Etiquette Poll |
| 2018-11-28 | 63 | meaty shoe puppet | how to handle aggressive women on the subway? |
| 2009-02-17 | 63 | Talez | Should I take pictures of kids who are legally required to stand on trains and email them to school principals? |
| 2017-03-23 | 63 | gateau | It’s His Party (And I’ll Cry if I Want To) |
| 2014-08-18 | 62 | Anonymous | Weekend guest etiquette - am I right to be upset? |
| 2008-06-12 | 62 | foxinthesnow | How much to tip? |
| 2012-03-31 | 61 | camdan | hike/bike trails, passing on the left. proper etiquette? |
| 2016-12-13 | 61 | egeanin | How to handle this stupid soap opera scenario? |
| 2010-12-22 | 61 | triggerfinger | Please help me to tell people I will not always be available to them |
| 2014-10-01 | 61 | early one morning | Brushing your teeth (even flossing) in a public restroom: ok? |
| 2010-09-15 | 61 | thewalrus | iPhone broken by a 2.5 year old |
| 2012-12-21 | 61 | phoenix_rising | lunchtime etiquette |
| 2008-05-20 | 60 | ghastlyfop | Inlaws Behaving Badly? |
| 2016-05-11 | 60 | epanalepsis | How do you wear sunglasses? |
| 2018-05-03 | 60 | queensissy | Restaurant eti-filter: what does your culture think of doggie bags? |
| 2012-06-23 | 60 | Milau | Doorbell etiquette |
| 2010-10-05 | 59 | Anonymous | So... your husband. Not a child molester, by any chance? |
| 2007-10-16 | 59 | TimeTravelSpeed | My Fair Gentleman |
| 2011-07-23 | 58 | Anonymous | How to Be Good to Her Under Difficult Circumstances? |
| 2012-03-12 | 58 | grouse | How can I politely get people to stop using a nickname? |
| 2010-02-19 | 57 | d. z. wang | Is it rude to invite a vegan if you can't guarantee he can eat anything? |
| 2014-01-24 | 57 | disaster77 | Check writing/cashing etiquette |
| 2006-03-14 | 57 | waldo | How do I deal with habitually rude callers? |
| 2015-11-10 | 57 | Proginoskes | How to tell previous homeowners we are tired of holding their mail |
| 2013-11-24 | 56 | Anonymous | "SelfishFilter: Is there a polite way to say ""gifts ok""?" |
| 2009-03-13 | 56 | keep it under cover | Eating out with Scrooge |
| 2011-05-26 | 55 | BadgerDoctor | tastes good but not in good taste? |
| 2010-10-12 | 55 | stealabove | Broken eyeglass etiquette - who should pay? |
| 2009-10-28 | 55 | VioletU | My Glasses Are Not Held Together With Tape, Honest. |
| 2006-10-07 | 55 | gelcap | How far from bed to keep condoms? |
| 2007-08-30 | 55 | uaudio | missed connections |
| 2016-09-19 | 54 | Sockpuppets 'R' Us | What's a polite way to tell a stranger you don't want to talk? |
| 2014-05-11 | 54 | tenaciousmoon | Engagement ring etiquette. |
| 2009-03-12 | 54 | Anonymous | """I had a great time tonight... now go home""?" |
| 2018-03-19 | 54 | credible hulk | How Rude is Using Self-Checkout Machines Twice? |
| 2010-06-28 | 54 | Anonymous | "WeddingFilter: ""You're not invited""" |
| 2014-12-14 | 54 | delezzo | Yes, you have to eat with strangers. |
| 2012-03-02 | 54 | Anonymous | script for dealing with rude comments about weight? |
| 2012-12-06 | 54 | TangoCharlie | How to put other night-time pedestrians at ease? |
| 2011-12-29 | 54 | Anonymous | Am I a total snob for being embarrassed by my friend's table habit? |
| 2016-04-23 | 54 | CheeseAndRice | Is it rude for friend to request I buy a new outfit for wedding? |
| 2013-12-20 | 54 | horizons | Facebook etiquette for what is basically, a year-long vacation? |
| 2010-06-20 | 53 | deadweightloss | Dogs and public parks |
| 2006-08-05 | 53 | tastybrains | Addressing wedding invitations... |
| 2011-05-28 | 53 | Disco Moo | Flashing hazards as you pass |
| 2011-07-12 | 53 | stranger danger | looking a gift horse in the mouth, or something |
| 2013-09-24 | 53 | mister_kaupungister | Thank you in advance |
| 2006-02-04 | 53 | adampsyche | Sitting on the same side? Yay or nay, I ask you? |
| 2007-04-20 | 53 | Anonymous | Should a Video of VTech Shooter's Play be Online? |
| 2021-08-30 | 52 | SageTrail | What's the social etiquette regarding visiting people who have dogs? |
| 2011-02-08 | 52 | Anonymous | Dear Slutty Abby |
| 2010-03-04 | 52 | Anonymous | Wedding Invitation Etiquette |
| 2013-02-26 | 52 | Anonymous | My dream wedding is a courthouse ceremony |
| 2007-10-16 | 52 | Anonymous | Male Pattern Balding Below The Belt |
| 2014-08-11 | 51 | redwaterman | Tact filter: How do I handle friend making fun of how I speak? |
| 2005-04-25 | 51 | xo | gender neutrality |
| 2015-08-22 | 51 | Hot buttered sockpuppets | Please don't sit with us |
| 2007-12-04 | 50 | Anonymous | "If you tell me ""Congratulations"", I will barf all over you." |
| 2008-10-09 | 50 | Anonymous | Collegial concern: going too far? |
| 2009-05-08 | 50 | Anonymous | The no-good, terrible, horrible, very bad table manners |
| 2013-07-02 | 50 | Anonymous | How to best deal with and/or avoid estranged parents at a wedding? |
| 2012-09-11 | 50 | jjjjjjjijjjjjjj | "Southern U.S. use of ""Miss [FirstName]"" -- racial or class connotations?" |
| 2005-07-29 | 50 | soundslikeobiwan | What's with the spitting in the urinal? |
| 2017-04-22 | 49 | waving | Restaurant complaint etiquette |
| 2016-11-30 | 49 | roomthreeseventeen | 58 seats. 62 Koreans. |
| 2010-10-26 | 49 | Groovytimes | Check please? |
| 2011-08-16 | 49 | t0astie | How do I nicely say, ah, your dog, which is at our house, is not welcome at our house? |
| 2011-05-11 | 48 | mchorn | Should I complain? |
| 2015-04-06 | 48 | rainbowbrite | Difficult Wedding Guest Quandary |
| 2011-02-25 | 48 | Sloop John B | I want to out on dates, not sit at home and write emails |
| 2016-09-08 | 48 | insectosaurus | Nail polish in public |
| 2013-06-14 | 47 | caesura | Crash course in American etiquette |
| 2010-08-31 | 47 | hellameangirl | Ok to ask? |
| 2013-04-05 | 47 | RingerChopChop | Fond of Fondly? |
| 2015-03-19 | 47 | aldebaran | Kindly telling someone you're not interested in a closer friendship? |
| 2023-10-25 | 47 | daisyace | Popping by |
| 2014-08-04 | 47 | zoomorphic | No one eats for free. |
| 2004-10-03 | 47 | yalestar | "What was so offensive about ""the blacks""?" |
| 2014-04-07 | 47 | Narrative Priorities | Do I apologize, or do we all just pretend this NEVER HAPPENED? |
| 2013-07-04 | 46 | ladybird | How to politely tell people to read their f*cking emails? |
| 2005-04-04 | 46 | Fat Guy | Is it acceptable to ask the bride not to seat me next to someone in particular? |
| 2011-07-27 | 46 | amicamentis | Can I Still Have a Butler? |
| 2014-06-24 | 46 | Austenite | Inviting only *some* family to our wedding? |
| 2011-12-29 | 46 | Bardolph | Hey, I don't really want to hug her, either. |
| 2007-06-01 | 46 | somersault | Good lord. |
| 2019-04-26 | 46 | unicorn chaser | """Where's that accent from?""" |
| 2009-12-27 | 46 | mrmarley | Anniversary of friend's toddler's death coming up |
| 2018-12-20 | 46 | JenThePro | Hosting / Guest Etiquette |
| 2012-01-06 | 45 | jabberjaw | urinal bathroom etiquette |
| 2004-10-21 | 45 | MiguelCardoso | Saying No |
| 2015-07-14 | 45 | wondrous strange snow | Is there any way to rescind this invitation? |
| 2021-06-09 | 45 | Tehhund | What are young kids in the US calling adults these days? |
| 2012-11-16 | 45 | glasseyes | Facebook Etiquette with in-laws in mind |
| 2013-09-14 | 45 | futureisunwritten | How to split a restaurant bill. |
| 2014-03-31 | 45 | stupidsexyFlanders | Must we acknowledge emails? |
| 2011-01-28 | 45 | kevinsp8 | Why do restaurants expect people to reuse their dirty utensils? |
| 2014-08-21 | 44 | magdalemon | My Best Frenemy's Wedding |
| 2008-05-21 | 44 | Sophie1 | "Saying ""no""" |
| 2018-10-26 | 44 | Dashy | Gym etiquette |
| 2010-07-27 | 43 | kataclysm | What is the best way to ruin someone's wedding plans? |
| 2008-08-05 | 43 | Anonymous | Can I buy the bride a pair of reality goggles? |
| 2021-04-10 | 43 | needs more cowbell | Messaging timing etiquette |
| 2006-01-05 | 43 | rocketman | Did I leave a good tip? |
| 2015-10-28 | 43 | sciatrix | When do you know it's time to take a sick day? |
| 2005-04-27 | 43 | muddgirl | Should I bring a gift to dinner at a prof's house? |
| 2007-07-12 | 43 | Anonymous | How to be the single one? |
| 2010-07-08 | 43 | so_gracefully | I want to hang out with my friend! |
| 2013-08-06 | 43 | windbox | Hey, mature people: Are you noticing how I'm cutting my food? |
| 2013-08-07 | 43 | Aubergine | a smelly situation |
| 2015-11-27 | 42 | Anonymous | Do I need to go to this funeral? |
| 2005-08-03 | 42 | bl1nk | "too bad you can't shout ""on your right"" to drivers" |
| 2010-02-28 | 42 | palionex | Tipping when waitstaff get paid minimum wage |
| 2011-09-01 | 42 | Jon44 | How to Cope with Overtly Bigoted Comment at Dinner Party? |
| 2013-11-27 | 42 | mulligan | Google Glass Etiquette |
| 2013-10-09 | 42 | nerdfish | 'We like you fine, but we're not buying dinner for you.' |
| 2015-04-15 | 42 | Quaversalis | Same-Sex Wedding Etiquette: Do We Invite Non-Supportive Parents? |
| 2006-04-02 | 42 | waldo | Catholic mass etiquette for non-Catholics? |
| 2017-04-05 | 42 | Suffocating Kitty | New Tenant Welcome Basket |
| 2010-09-29 | 41 | Anonymous | Returning or keeping engagement ring |
| 2009-06-09 | 41 | Roach | Help me choose the wording for a t-shirt that pointedly calls people out on their terrible cell phone etiquette. |
| 2015-05-01 | 41 | redwaterman | Houseguest karma |
| 2011-07-09 | 41 | Hey nonny nonny mouse | Is there any way to uninvite someone? |
| 2014-05-29 | 41 | caseofyou | was this appropriate |
| 2009-12-04 | 41 | valadil | Getting married next may, what's the etiquette for inviting friends of parents. |
| 2011-07-10 | 41 | nickhb | How do I deal with Racist friends? |
| 2006-08-16 | 41 | wejones | Should I give back a ring that my ex's mom gave me? |
| 2016-06-03 | 41 | cortex | Best practices for handing a customer bills + coins in change? |
| 2017-05-13 | 41 | whistle pig | Advice for a grossed out diner |
| 2015-07-30 | 41 | paleyellowwithorange | restaurant etiquette: used tissue on finished plate? |
| 2019-11-18 | 41 | Quarter Pincher | "Etiquette/Manners Filter: Go-To Quip for vendor ""I don't work here"" ?" |
| 2004-11-22 | 41 | RavinDave | Why can't people park their bikes right? |