| Date | Favorites | User | Post |
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| 2009-11-03 | 1213 | wyzewoman | "What clever relationship ""hacks"" have you come up with?" |
| 2015-07-20 | 462 | Maecenas | Emotional Labor Checklist/Self-Assessment |
| 2013-08-12 | 432 | Bokonon11 | What is a life changing realization that you wish you'd had sooner? |
| 2010-11-07 | 303 | onegoodthing | Real life is not like the movies. |
| 2017-12-22 | 242 | hexaflexagon | What is a life-changing realization you wish you had sooner? (2017 ed.) |
| 2013-01-30 | 240 | argonauta | How do you spot Dating Warning Phrases? |
| 2007-08-05 | 228 | jkl345 | """So, how about them Mets?"" sucks. I need awesome questions to spur conversation, create bonds and learn more about people." |
| 2009-09-16 | 226 | stuboo | Tell me about a time when you were on the receiving end of a truly romantic act. |
| 2009-11-20 | 210 | lunalaguna | But what's it there for? Do you actually sleep on it? |
| 2011-07-13 | 208 | Chrysalis | What's it like when it's nice? |
| 2013-08-09 | 176 | the hot hot side of randy | Hey, Extroverts! |
| 2006-09-06 | 147 | Anonymous | With any luck then I suppose the music never ends. |
| 2009-01-17 | 138 | Anonymous | Is my husband trying to kill me? |
| 2015-06-14 | 127 | HumanBean | Adults who love life and have no kids: what is your lifestyle? |
| 2006-12-29 | 124 | Anonymous | How do I know if a prospective manfriend is the type to, um, pull my hair? |
| 2013-09-26 | 120 | d. z. wang | Canonical mistakes for people whose first relationship is in their 20s? |
| 2012-11-05 | 119 | amoeba | Help me learn how to maintain friendships? |
| 2015-07-20 | 111 | JustKeepSwimming | Should I Just Go Straight to Crone Island? |
| 2009-03-08 | 110 | richar4 | How do I overcome my fear of disapproval? |
| 2012-09-21 | 105 | Fairchild | Family Secrets on Film |
| 2007-03-20 | 101 | Anonymous | Teach a Martian how to be a boyfriend. |
| 2011-02-27 | 97 | Anonymous | How to overcome feeling lost, aimless, confused, and alone? |
| 2006-11-26 | 96 | Anonymous | Is it possible to just be too damn awesome? |
| 2014-04-09 | 92 | Sara C. | He's just definitely that into you |
| 2015-01-04 | 90 | Blissful | Things you wish you had talked about before getting married |
| 2010-05-10 | 89 | anya32 | real love music mix |
| 2018-09-09 | 89 | inatizzy | How to build close friendships as an adult? |
| 2012-04-23 | 87 | ohsnapdragon | How to keep falling in love with my wife? |
| 2010-08-11 | 87 | allkindsoftime | A question about questions. |
| 2007-09-17 | 87 | slow graffiti | omgbffs4evr |
| 2012-11-20 | 86 | booksandwine | What strategies do you employ in your relationship to rebuild closeness in your long-term relationship/marriage? |
| 2019-07-19 | 84 | grinagog | Relationship Rituals and Family Traditions |
| 2015-11-30 | 83 | rippersid | For a successful marriage, marry your second spouse. |
| 2011-09-25 | 82 | invisible ink | What are your favorite poems about the end of a relationship? |
| 2008-03-20 | 80 | allkindsoftime | No more of this. |
| 2008-10-24 | 78 | AAAA | How'd you meet your wife/husband/partner? |
| 2015-03-22 | 77 | dorothyisunderwood | Marriage models? |
| 2014-11-16 | 75 | Anonymous | Am I broken? |
| 2017-07-27 | 74 | cotton dress sock | Developing healthy relationship skills |
| 2010-03-28 | 73 | Anonymous | I would like to know how you have dealt with or are dealing with this thing called loneliness. |
| 2012-09-29 | 72 | windykites | "What does it mean to be ""vulnerable"" ?" |
| 2018-01-31 | 72 | arcolz | Relationship affirming activities? |
| 2008-10-12 | 71 | Anonymous | How to address recurring doubts about a long-term relationship |
| 2010-02-18 | 70 | awesomebrad | Music for My Un-Breakup |
| 2012-01-14 | 68 | sunrisecoffee | how to form a group of girlfriends at age 30? |
| 2012-05-27 | 67 | persephone's rant | Tell me your stories about dating in your 30s? |
| 2013-08-16 | 67 | MultiFaceted | Strong Single Woman? Is there like...Cliff notes for this or something? |
| 2013-02-03 | 67 | dubadubowbow | Help me make better day-to-day impression with the small things |
| 2010-12-15 | 64 | alternateuniverse | Hot girls are... |
| 2010-12-05 | 64 | Anonymous | Are meaningful relationships the meaning of life? |
| 2014-11-20 | 64 | clawsoon | Reading recommendations for someone who wants healthier relationships? |
| 2007-03-24 | 63 | wfrgms | I love me some science... her, eh, not so much... |
| 2018-05-11 | 63 | considerthelilies | Being single in your mid-to-late 30s – positive stories? |
| 2010-12-30 | 61 | boostershot | I'm 35 years old. I'm funny, smart, beautiful. I make good money and have a lot of friends. But I've never been in love, nor has anyone told me they loved me. Forever Alone? |
| 2012-12-14 | 60 | booksandwine | Help me come up with “exciting” and “pleasant” experiences for us to do together as a couple. |
| 2015-10-23 | 60 | aeighty | Books about marriage |
| 2011-02-24 | 60 | cheesecake | Books for Anxious-Preoccupied Attachment Style |
| 2009-07-15 | 60 | wiretap | "me: ""Hi!"" you: ""Hello"" me: ""um.."" you: ""...."" me: ""..."" -> infinity" |
| 2014-05-22 | 58 | watercarrier | Good Movies About Couples in Love |
| 2011-10-25 | 58 | oceanview | So, um, do you like....stuff? |
| 2011-09-08 | 58 | cupcake1337 | no one wants to fuck me |
| 2010-06-29 | 58 | smokingloon | Can a Ph.D. woman be happy with a nonintellectual man? |
| 2009-02-06 | 57 | Yakuman | How an a grown-up learn social skills? |
| 2014-03-28 | 56 | macinchik | Looking for good relationship movies |
| 2014-08-15 | 56 | waylaid | building solid community in your thirties and forties |
| 2011-10-27 | 56 | sucky_poppet | Is being alone really worth it? |
| 2008-04-01 | 55 | Anonymous | Being happy in spite of negative personalities... |
| 2012-03-22 | 55 | Anonymous | How to love when love can be taken away from you at any time? |
| 2014-04-22 | 55 | a sourceless light | Angry Dude |
| 2007-11-01 | 54 | philosophistry | "The ultimate ""Why am I single?"" thread" |
| 2011-03-16 | 53 | jca | Songs with conversation duets? |
| 2013-11-13 | 53 | Creamroller | Strategies for quality time with my wife when life gets in the way |
| 2015-01-24 | 53 | Anonymous | Only a loser would settle for me |
| 2012-05-30 | 52 | exploringoptimism | "What separates the ""never-recover-from-this-breakup/shell of my former self"" people from the ones who bounce back and love again?" |
| 2023-06-07 | 52 | verity kindle | Solo living + interdependence |
| 2011-12-23 | 52 | litleozy | How do you not mess relationships up? |
| 2012-08-08 | 52 | Anonymous | Is it possible to get through a hard time in a relationship? |
| 2006-10-22 | 52 | ibmcginty | Annoying, dealbreaker-level things women do in relationships |
| 2010-04-02 | 51 | EmilyClimbs | "How important is being ""in love"" to a happy marriage? What's the difference between love vs ""in love"" vs limerance?" |
| 2007-05-17 | 50 | Anonymous | Help with lack of romantic experience? |
| 2013-06-03 | 50 | schmod | Songs for the dumper? |
| 2011-05-12 | 50 | charmcityblues | How do you resist the urge to nag your partner? Or do you? |
| 2010-03-13 | 49 | Anonymous | How do I know if I should get a divorce? |
| 2012-04-25 | 49 | Anonymous | Can an intellectual and a simpler, down-to-earth type stay in love? |
| 2018-12-27 | 49 | ohsnapdragon | How to deal with men's negative humor? |
| 2012-08-28 | 48 | thelastgirl | Beauty Privilege? |
| 2020-07-06 | 48 | robot cat | Next-level social skills for workplace leadership |
| 2009-07-22 | 48 | Anonymous | What would you do, at home in the evenings, if you couldn't surf the web or play computer games? |
| 2020-11-09 | 47 | greatalleycat | How do I feel less disappointed and ashamed about my life? |
| 2006-12-27 | 46 | awesomebrad | How can I be a good boyfriend? |
| 2009-03-05 | 46 | tealsocks | How do I get better at holding conversation? |
| 2007-09-21 | 46 | gregb1007 | How do people go about bringing honest communication into their friendships and relationships? |
| 2009-11-12 | 46 | cymru_j | How have you made your best friends? |
| 2008-10-30 | 46 | soleiluna | Moving in with an S.O. - General advice |
| 2016-06-23 | 46 | alex1965 | They don't ask, so I don't tell |
| 2012-06-18 | 45 | Miss T.Horn | When your relationship tree was just a sapling (and other sappy metaphors) |
| 2010-04-26 | 45 | Wisco72 | How to turn my brain off? |
| 2011-08-11 | 44 | ThisIsNotMe | """Happy families are all alike,"" but I want to read about them" |
| 2010-10-01 | 44 | Katine | Loving your pathetic lump |
| 2009-05-16 | 43 | SkylitDrawl | Please make me a better letter writer! |
| 2012-02-26 | 43 | Anonymous | How do I love better? |
| 2017-03-19 | 43 | nirblegee | How to deal with emotional labor inequity in relationships with males? |
| 2015-07-02 | 43 | prewar lemonade | Making it stick: your best new relationship advice |
| 2010-08-26 | 43 | Anonymous | How adults handle getting dumped? |
| 2015-06-19 | 43 | rebent | Nerd hobby that gets me out there |
| 2016-06-30 | 42 | tomtheblackbear | What self help workbooks would you recommend for me? |
| 2013-06-26 | 42 | ruby.aftermath | Falling in love is the easy part. |
| 2009-11-10 | 42 | heatherann | Why do you recommend the book 'How to be an Adult in Relationships'? |
| 2010-11-09 | 42 | Anonymous | How to go the distance |
| 2009-01-03 | 42 | vizsla | Movies about love and relationships that aren't like whirlwind romances? |
| 2023-11-09 | 41 | redlines | Hacks for maintaining friendships and family bonds |
| 2010-11-20 | 41 | zahava | Love is a piano dropped from a fourth story window and you were in ... the right place at the right time? |
| 2017-07-18 | 41 | Anonymous | "How much emotional support is considered ""supportive""" |
| 2013-02-27 | 41 | Gee, June! | Talking: How does it work? |
| 2017-11-26 | 41 | swheatie | Can you share real-life love stories involving women over 50? |
| 2009-11-19 | 41 | MultiFaceted | Why do I freak out if I don't know why? |
| 2013-10-26 | 41 | chrysanthemum | Looking for an upbeat but melancholic song for a crush who's gone |
| 2014-07-20 | 41 | Anonymous | How can you recognize a secure person if you’re insecure? |
| 2012-08-01 | 41 | 3491again | Diplomatic and tactful |
| 2010-04-10 | 41 | mondaygreens | Calling all (former) dysfunctional codependents |
| 2012-07-23 | 40 | ann on a mouse | How do I overcome my lack of relationship experience? |
| 2012-11-14 | 40 | valdesm | what are movies about independent women in a relationship? |
| 2012-01-09 | 40 | myShanon | Connect the dots (or, people..) |
| 2010-12-02 | 40 | Anonymous | Help! I may be an asshole |
| 2018-05-01 | 40 | alipie | How do I get over the relationship hump? |
| 2013-06-07 | 40 | kingfishers catch fire | "Playlist About ""The One""" |
| 2014-04-06 | 40 | Aranquis | Giving up on other people |
| 2015-10-03 | 40 | Anonymous | Compromise... how does that work? |
| 2012-04-10 | 39 | Caligula's Idiot Cousin | I love you, but... |
| 2013-09-07 | 39 | Anonymous | Gifts for the man who has (or could buy) everything? |
| 2011-02-10 | 39 | photo guy | Dating/socializing 101 for introverts |
| 2008-10-24 | 39 | Anonymous | "Can love without infatuation still be ""real love""?" |
| 2017-09-02 | 39 | treetop89 | How to build more love in my life |
| 2009-04-12 | 39 | coffeecold | What's the key to getting involved with as many interesting projects and meeting as many interesting people as possible? |
| 2014-06-29 | 39 | Sockrates | Having a messy house is the least of my worries |
| 2011-03-25 | 38 | Sara C. | The Anthropology Of Love |
| 2010-03-31 | 38 | Anonymous | Marry or break up? |
| 2020-01-18 | 38 | derrinyet | Experiences with changing your life in your 30s |
| 2012-09-19 | 38 | amoeba | What fun things should we do before having kids? |
| 2018-12-03 | 38 | Anonymous | Ideas and strategies for getting my life back on track? |
| 2018-03-24 | 38 | Nilehorse | Suggest some podcasts - emotional insights edition |
| 2009-10-28 | 38 | Anonymous | How do I fix me? |
| 2012-07-11 | 38 | Anonymous | Is there really more to life than this? |
| 2010-10-07 | 38 | Anonymous | Does one or both of us need therapy, or is it time to DTMFA? |
| 2006-07-31 | 38 | slipperywhenwet | ..other than sex. |
| 2012-02-27 | 37 | faux fabric entertainment device | Analytical relationship advice books without esotericism? |
| 2010-04-25 | 37 | shaun uh | Why is the world so big? How do I make it smaller? |
| 2011-11-27 | 37 | bunderful | How to stop worrying and love myself |
| 2016-05-27 | 37 | Kalmya | Change your attachment style |
| 2010-11-03 | 37 | bovious | Why does my wife zing me all the time? |
| 2019-01-04 | 36 | Anticipation Of A New Lover's Arrival, The | What is the state of online dating in 2019? |
| 2017-12-09 | 36 | adastra | How to be a good partner when you're the depressed one |
| 2023-12-16 | 36 | knapah | Gentle sci-fi set on space- stations or ships? |
| 2007-07-08 | 36 | Anonymous | How do I get over my fear of commitment/grass is greener syndrome? |
| 2009-12-21 | 36 | starpoint | Should women expect men to cheat on them? |
| 2016-02-25 | 36 | dubhemerak3000 | Folding without breaking: define long-term relationship compatibility? |
| 2010-07-25 | 36 | Anonymous | How do I open myself to love? |
| 2008-07-21 | 36 | divabat | Fizzled Out on Passion |
| 2011-04-30 | 36 | Anonymous | How to overcome fear of rejection in relationships |
| 2015-02-01 | 35 | Anonymous | Have you learned to really accept your partner? How? |
| 2008-08-24 | 35 | Anonymous | How to care for my geek husband? |
| 2016-09-25 | 35 | gumtree | I'm passive aggressive. How do I fix that? |
| 2021-07-20 | 35 | Aranquis | Dating Failure |
| 2015-07-31 | 35 | Guelder | Outsider by choice: how to become more active? |
| 2014-09-25 | 35 | Anonymous | You're making me justify all the things |
| 2011-12-16 | 35 | 3491again | Help me get couple-y |
| 2008-07-22 | 35 | Anonymous | Am I just happier being single? |
| 2017-10-06 | 35 | miaow | Strong reactions in relationships |
| 2013-04-10 | 35 | timsneezed | recommend films about weird relationships |
| 2007-10-10 | 34 | Dillonlikescookies | Second time's the charm? |
| 2017-05-18 | 34 | ohsnapdragon | Resources for soothing anxieties about marriage? |
| 2007-08-03 | 34 | Anonymous | I'm needy--help! (pun intended) |
| 2014-05-14 | 34 | bbqturtle | Help me respect people in my life that don't seem like they are trying. |
| 2013-01-22 | 34 | sockpuppet yo | What do good relationships look like when they're bad? |
| 2008-05-14 | 34 | pipstar | What is the psychology of friendship? |
| 2010-05-06 | 34 | dogcat | Are close, one-on-one, opposite-sex friendships a good idea? |
| 2011-02-25 | 34 | MultiFaceted | "How do I ""Let Go"" and let life go at its own pace?" |
| 2023-05-05 | 34 | HotToddy | Do you know whether your partner values your best characteristics? |
| 2012-02-04 | 33 | Anonymous | What is Real Life, non-Hollywood romance? |
| 2012-09-12 | 33 | domo | Help me stop being mean. |
| 2014-07-31 | 33 | SabrinaV | Tips on allowing new relationships to unfold naturally? |
| 2011-07-06 | 33 | Anonymous | just please don't hate me more |
| 2011-08-01 | 33 | Anonymous | What am doing wrong? |
| 2012-04-01 | 33 | flowers103 | What are some tips for keeping friendships as an adult? |
| 2012-11-30 | 33 | spunweb | "Remind me to text ""I love you.""" |
| 2014-07-14 | 33 | sockitysock | Is it possible to fix self-esteem issues from within a relationship? |
| 2007-04-13 | 33 | Anonymous | What's normal in a relationship? |
| 2017-01-09 | 33 | Anonymous | How did you get to a place of healthy, honest, open dialogue? |
| 2014-04-09 | 32 | Anonymous | "Describe going from ""date"" to ""relationship""" |
| 2009-06-14 | 32 | Anonymous | Grown-up love |
| 2010-02-14 | 32 | Anonymous | But I don't want to be an alpha male! |
| 2015-05-06 | 32 | armadillo1224 | How to cope with my terror of uncertainty in my mid-20s |
| 2011-08-27 | 32 | Anonymous | How not to people-please your way to relationship angst |
| 2008-01-11 | 32 | callmejay | "Stories about healthy, ""normal"" marriages?" |
| 2018-02-22 | 32 | seraph9 | Sabotaged by my younger self - how to begin life at 40? |
| 2007-08-18 | 31 | mpls2 | Ms. Not-too-bad? |
| 2017-07-28 | 31 | Anonymous | Earnest question: how can I love my body? |
| 2011-03-21 | 31 | Anonymous | Too Old For Mr Right? |
| 2015-07-10 | 31 | brookeb | First Comes Love, then Comes....? |
| 2007-03-22 | 31 | Anonymous | Help me distance myself from my family (and not feel guilty). |