| Date | Length | User | Post |
|---|
| 2007-05-26 | 24830 | Anonymous | Please suggest ways to improve my situation in life. |
| 2007-01-07 | 22295 | mickbw | Why doesn't this page display correct in IE6? |
| 2009-11-12 | 22238 | cotesdurhone | How do I, a (possibly promising) writer of literature, given X circumstances, escape the Boston area to a location/ situation conducive to writing— either abroad, or elsewhere in the US? |
| 2024-03-09 | 20558 | Rhaomi | [RSS PSA] Questions you may have missed... |
| 2013-05-15 | 19839 | timsneezed | Confused by guy's behavior |
| 2013-06-22 | 18974 | Fee Phi Faux Phumb I Smell t'Socks o' a Puppetman! | It'd be improper to tell him his joke made me suicidal, I guess. |
| 2010-08-05 | 18479 | tachikoma_robot | Even third wheels get tired sometimes |
| 2011-11-04 | 18217 | Conspire | I have no idea how to summarize this. |
| 2020-04-21 | 18174 | wooh | Help me think through what country we should move to |
| 2012-02-24 | 17966 | teaforone | how to get over an ex completely? |
| 2024-06-19 | 17749 | MuppetNavy | Worried I'm too strange for romantic fulfillment, scared of how to cope |
| 2017-10-16 | 17575 | bluecastle | Ended it, now Flooded with Confusion |
| 2008-05-17 | 17400 | likeapen | spyware is killing me. |
| 2015-08-03 | 17329 | eustaciavye87 | Navigating the tricky waters of an ever-changing dating status tide. |
| 2017-02-25 | 17271 | sciatrix | What does a healthy straight parents/queer child relationship look like? |
| 2016-08-17 | 17013 | myShanon | "Getting rid of toxic roommate when ""GTFO"" isn't as easy as it sounds?" |
| 2017-04-02 | 16598 | readygo | Don't know what to do in moving situation, think I hurt my best friend |
| 2024-08-27 | 16501 | MuppetNavy | Trying to stay engaged with life |
| 2013-08-11 | 16440 | Anonymous | Please help me not freak out about my first ever psych visit |
| 2022-02-24 | 15745 | What a Joke | Cognitive dissonance about my marriage, what is the reality? |
| 2017-09-30 | 15610 | christiehawk | Was I A Rebound? |
| 2022-05-30 | 15599 | Jangatroo | Requesting Proofread of Letter to Landlord (Last Question, Promise!) |
| 2018-12-28 | 15403 | Anonymous | How to approach my boss about a personnel issue |
| 2017-10-26 | 15303 | o_O | The slow numb horror of it all |
| 2023-02-12 | 15249 | ScorpionFlower | Boyfriend of 6 months coming home in a drunken rage |
| 2022-01-14 | 15186 | anon1129 | Is my relationship workable or is it better to end things? |
| 2013-05-25 | 15133 | yonega | Getting Over A Craptastic Relationship |
| 2024-03-13 | 15090 | EmpressCallipygos | Self-Care In The Short Term |
| 2021-11-30 | 14627 | anon1129 | How do I (29F) approach a talk with my distanced sister (39F)? |
| 2017-05-21 | 14615 | Anonymous | Nearly all of my job functions have been changed. What can I do? |
| 2012-12-13 | 14536 | matticulate | I want to get on my own two feet. I need a plan of attack. |
| 2018-06-02 | 14515 | miratime | What to do about my mom |
| 2017-03-06 | 14377 | emma33UK | What can I learn from my recent experience of being sacked? |
| 2016-12-01 | 14266 | Anonymous | career-advicefilter |
| 2021-02-01 | 14197 | Anonymous | My current work dynamic is unhealthy. I'd like things to change. |
| 2016-08-21 | 14168 | Sheila Nagig | How do I rebuild trust in my relationship and meet my partner's needs? |
| 2018-07-22 | 14129 | t0astie | What do I ask a pain / palliative care specialist to help my Mum? |
| 2014-06-23 | 14117 | Anonymous | How to process bad internship experience? |
| 2018-05-13 | 13989 | stoneandstar | Relationship troubles at a boiling point |
| 2016-04-02 | 13871 | nightrecordings | New eye doctor. Bad experience. |
| 2009-03-26 | 13538 | Mrs Hilksom | I Guess I Just Want My $1000... |
| 2011-09-10 | 13536 | synecdoche | Please, please help me get my Macbook Pro up and running again! |
| 2007-07-06 | 13436 | tcv | Why can't I have normal friendships? |
| 2018-05-13 | 13420 | Anonymous | Complex PTSD in the workplace |
| 2010-10-30 | 13416 | BaxterG4 | Help me make good decisions about my 10 year old son |
| 2022-12-21 | 13375 | Jangatroo | Is Manipulation a Common/Accepted Component in a Healthy Relationship? |
| 2007-05-09 | 13347 | workinprogress | Can I find sanity and peace in life having the mother that I have?? |
| 2011-01-09 | 13297 | soulsteelgray | Am I crazy for sticking by my boyfriend through the shitstorm that's his life? |
| 2016-08-12 | 13293 | Anonymous | How do you cope with feeling inadequate while dating with a disability? |
| 2010-02-22 | 13185 | formaltide | Moved to a new location, still unable to connect to people |
| 2023-01-02 | 13160 | If only I had a penguin... | What makes Nestea so delicious? Can I make it at home with stevia? |
| 2022-06-14 | 12989 | DoubleLune | Ergonomic WFH chair with playroom vibes |
| 2021-07-05 | 12867 | krisb1701d | Meat in the middle |
| 2017-08-27 | 12856 | apis mellifera | How do I survive my fiancee's suicide? |
| 2015-07-02 | 12734 | readygo | Keep cool, my babies.. |
| 2012-07-04 | 12685 | terretu | Hypomania or hype? |
| 2015-03-29 | 12625 | krs15 | I might've ruined one of my closest friendships. Should I make amends? |
| 2012-01-24 | 12570 | Argyle_Sock_Puppet | I need a doctor who can help me with my problem, but what exactly IS my problem? |
| 2010-02-22 | 12504 | Anonymous | Help me help my anxious, bipolar, stressed-out friend. |
| 2015-01-13 | 12495 | wats | Job is being eliminated, where to go from here? |
| 2021-06-25 | 12427 | terretu | Fatigue: when doctors are out of ideas edition |
| 2010-03-04 | 12382 | wcmf | Does he actually like me as a person or is he only interested in sex (29 yr old girl w/no experience)? |
| 2012-03-27 | 12373 | BEE-EATING CAT-EATER | hello i am a transperson; should i go to grad school? |
| 2019-03-05 | 12315 | Camrain | How do you know when someone is an alcoholic? |
| 2017-04-07 | 12296 | actionpotential | How can I find a connection with a man I’m actually attracted to? |
| 2015-06-20 | 12278 | Anonymous | Boss who gaslights, stonewalls and bullies me & my coworkers. |
| 2012-09-24 | 12273 | Someone Else's Story | I'm thinking of breaking up with you because you're depressed. Yes, I am just that awful. |
| 2014-03-14 | 12207 | Someone Else's Story | Libido Rollercoasters Going In Different Directions... |
| 2017-10-29 | 12104 | phonebia | How do I figure out if I want to date my friend when I've never flirted? |
| 2024-05-17 | 12050 | shocks connery | Crtl+Z in life after making it weird |
| 2024-06-10 | 11995 | hiraeth_ | "Is my landlord breaching ""reasonable enjoyment""?" |
| 2015-01-03 | 11985 | Anonymous | What we have here is... |
| 2013-03-12 | 11815 | Anonymous | I bought a business a few years ago, and now it's making me completely miserable. |
| 2011-09-07 | 11806 | book 'em, danno | Bird in a gilded cage, with a cuttlefish of infidelity and a newspaper floor of possible visa fraud |
| 2018-06-25 | 11795 | Pineaway | Help me escape the mind f*ckery and move forward. |
| 2019-01-20 | 11718 | blue rare | Should I ask for another shot? Or were we actually terribly mismatched? |
| 2019-12-12 | 11627 | What a Joke | Please analyze my relationship situation again? |
| 2011-10-21 | 11615 | shesaysgo | Please stop yelling at me and just fix my heat. |
| 2014-01-12 | 11605 | Fermin | How can I tell my overprotective parents I´m going nomad? |
| 2020-02-13 | 11604 | Anonymous | My husband and I moved last summer (#academiafilter). I'm miserable. |
| 2015-03-01 | 11588 | sevenofspades | What do when living a meaningful life is expensive? |
| 2007-10-31 | 11551 | Anonymous | Commit or break up? |
| 2016-02-17 | 11550 | NeverGrowSoOldAgain | Help dealing with a dying NT-Aspie relationship |
| 2016-10-01 | 11409 | forza | Help mediating sibling spats? |
| 2019-04-10 | 11367 | Libelula y colibri | """What issue would you like me to address first?” " |
| 2019-07-13 | 11363 | [insert clever name here] | Finding part time or temporary work quickly in 2019 |
| 2006-10-05 | 11352 | Anonymous | Was I wrong to contact my father out of the blue after 38 years? |
| 2017-02-11 | 11264 | emma33UK | Placing myself under pressure to do an MSc - irrational or sensible? |
| 2021-01-04 | 11243 | Anonymous | Lingering religious indoctrination in step-kids |
| 2021-04-22 | 11234 | Sunflower88 | Need help thinking through extreme jealousy in problematic relationship? |
| 2021-07-11 | 11225 | Anonymous | Abusive parents as an adult? |
| 2009-07-22 | 11216 | Anonymous | How can I adapt to fix problems with long-term girlfriend's family? (semi-long explaination, sorry) |
| 2023-04-17 | 11215 | Salicornia | "Financially/emotionally burnt out, boyfriend wants to ""finally""move in " |
| 2011-04-21 | 11206 | noella | This relationship, it's like Groundhog Day. |
| 2016-01-27 | 11199 | orangesky4 | Do I wait for things to get better or is it a bad fit? |
| 2012-01-23 | 11180 | Anonymous | Surprised With Being Let Go, Networking/Job Search 101 plz? |
| 2015-10-02 | 11163 | bugperson | Dealing w/ being an Average Jane engaged to a brilliant genius? |
| 2012-07-23 | 11160 | ann on a mouse | How do I overcome my lack of relationship experience? |
| 2022-08-18 | 11149 | What a Joke | Anxious attachment thinking vs healthy striving for interdependency |
| 2013-01-11 | 11122 | Ranting Prophet of DOOM! | How to salvage a friendship and is it worth it? |
| 2018-04-04 | 11120 | ggp88 | Just had our first tough moment, she just forgave me, I need some advice |
| 2016-01-11 | 11096 | token-ring | Its another relationship question, or I'm a commitaphobe, please help! |
| 2022-08-03 | 11078 | Ceci n'est pas une chaussette | How to keep the house clean, fairly: neurodivergent new parent filter |
| 2023-09-30 | 11068 | Anonymous | Should I talk to my vet about the way my dog passed away? |
| 2009-09-28 | 11065 | pseudomouse | Help me sort out this budding relationship |
| 2012-02-24 | 11056 | curiousone | Passion vs. Security in Career - Which should I pursue? |
| 2011-08-06 | 11040 | Anonymous | Sitting on this fence is getting uncomfortable. Shove me. |
| 2023-12-23 | 11026 | Anonymous | How to cope with an “out of control” parent? |
| 2013-08-08 | 10924 | hellameangirl | How do I communicate what I want when I'm not even sure what that is? |
| 2020-04-04 | 10916 | Anonymous | Questions about being unfairly accused of assault |
| 2022-06-05 | 10912 | Balthamos | "How to feel at home when it isn't ""home""" |
| 2007-10-30 | 10902 | Anonymous | Girl Crazy |
| 2022-05-19 | 10868 | Anonymous | Physical, romantic intimacy with an asexual partner in these times? |
| 2011-10-28 | 10836 | Teradactyl | Could I have done something different? |
| 2016-11-20 | 10835 | Anonymous | how do I take care of myself when my whole world no longer makes sense? |
| 2008-02-23 | 10833 | GilloD | How do I fix a problem updating my Ubuntu package repository? |
| 2018-11-23 | 10820 | calibrator | I have a young family and don’t see a future for the marriage |
| 2023-01-14 | 10816 | Jangatroo | Breakup, and Sacrifice vs. Compromise in Happy Relationships |
| 2010-03-10 | 10813 | operaposthuma | How to help someone who is showing signs of psychosis? |
| 2015-02-14 | 10802 | KTN | Should I give up the medical school dream? |
| 2011-04-08 | 10768 | EmilyClimbs | How can I try to help a depressed, possibly borderline, friend who's trying to isolate herself? |
| 2013-08-26 | 10738 | [insert clever name here] | Mom, I'm breaking up with you. |
| 2016-04-23 | 10734 | Puck Soppet | What Should I Do Next? |
| 2014-08-01 | 10734 | Anonymous | Help me accept what I don't understand. |
| 2011-03-14 | 10727 | Anonymous | """Off with her head!"" said the Queen." |
| 2012-08-04 | 10717 | blue rare | It didn't end the way I thought it would end. |
| 2015-01-17 | 10681 | DeadFlagBlues | Why can I not get over my abusive boyfriend? |
| 2012-04-18 | 10662 | Anonymous | i'm on drugs and i'm tired |
| 2010-08-06 | 10646 | Galen | Creating Heirlooms for Common People |
| 2019-12-29 | 10641 | Anonymous | Am I going crazy? |
| 2018-07-25 | 10630 | Yoko Ono's Advice Column | Pregnant and Put on a PIP at Work |
| 2013-11-12 | 10630 | beyondthepale | Should I consider a new therapist? |
| 2017-10-29 | 10612 | ladykitty5 | I just broke up with my boyfriend, and am feeling really down about it. |
| 2017-07-10 | 10609 | Evermoor | Should I move out or stay? |
| 2020-02-08 | 10587 | Aurora13 | I think my long-distance fiance is cheating |
| 2013-08-12 | 10587 | drummergirl80 | Did I fuck up? How shall I do it differently next time? |
| 2011-02-02 | 10556 | athenadanae | How do I start having healthy relationships as a female introvert at college? |
| 2009-11-25 | 10552 | cheapskatebay | I’d like advice on how to either leave my church as gracefully as possible, or find a way to reconcile my lack of faith with my continued church membership. |
| 2019-01-07 | 10535 | Anonymous | Trouble managing anxiety around kid schooling decisions |
| 2012-02-12 | 10522 | QuakerMel | Help Us Help Our Dog |
| 2008-06-19 | 10513 | taz | Dog Experts, I Need You. *So* Much. |
| 2023-03-18 | 10504 | peakes | Need help leading an all-male team |
| 2012-12-10 | 10500 | sock puppet mop bucket | Please help me leave my abusive fiance. |
| 2010-03-20 | 10475 | cheberet | Collegedorkfilter: He's acting like he's in love with me, and I feel the same, but he seems to have another girl. |
| 2020-02-02 | 10474 | starstarstar | Is my boyfriend a bit...creepy with his coworker? |
| 2008-09-29 | 10458 | saysthis | Possibly the longest post on askmefi ever |
| 2011-03-01 | 10448 | Fee Phi Faux Phumb I Smell t'Socks o' a Puppetman! | And there are no blood tests for this, I take it... |
| 2022-05-31 | 10445 | [insert clever name here] | Did the hospital mess up by discharging someone experiencing psychosis? |
| 2011-05-19 | 10409 | Anonymous | A newspaper's issues (in more ways than one) |
| 2013-10-01 | 10394 | Anonymous | Need help with a difficult professor |
| 2019-02-10 | 10371 | thebotanyofsouls | DTMFA? |
| 2018-09-05 | 10363 | [insert clever name here] | My life is on the verge of falling apart and I don’t know what to do. |
| 2009-05-04 | 10354 | Sock!Puppet! | RelationshipFilter: She had an affair. I caught her. We're working it out. This sucks. I need help. |
| 2016-09-07 | 10343 | zinful | The horse of contempt vs the pony of stability |
| 2017-03-03 | 10341 | Puppetry for Privacy | Angling Sibling, Aging Parents |
| 2011-10-11 | 10323 | superfille | I can’t believe I have to ask this age-old question, but…is he interested or am I spending time thinking about him/this situation for nothing? |
| 2007-12-23 | 10312 | sansgras | Help a miserable 20something deal with her paranoid, overprotective father! |
| 2016-09-09 | 10277 | wildblueyonder | Friends with an ex's BFF? |
| 2020-05-01 | 10269 | wooh | Help me brainstorm cities we could move to in Canada |
| 2018-09-22 | 10263 | Anonymous | How to become more sensitive, stop saying the wrong thing? |
| 2010-06-04 | 10256 | Anonymous | Failedpolyamoryfilter |
| 2023-08-15 | 10234 | crunchy potato | Appropriate expectations for change in blended family? |
| 2015-07-24 | 10230 | mittens | aspergers, adhd, anxiety, or appropriation? |
| 2014-10-30 | 10204 | starstarstar | Reason to feel insecure or am I just being borderline insane?! |
| 2016-08-22 | 10186 | bologna on wry | Friendship woes: nothing ever changes, do I stay his friend? |
| 2022-09-29 | 10165 | anon1129 | My mom is in the mental hospital. |
| 2015-05-19 | 10162 | Anonymous | Please help me figure out what to do with the rest of my life. |
| 2023-04-07 | 10157 | wooh | looking for advice about how to think about managing interests and time |
| 2018-11-22 | 10150 | Anonymous | This person was 98% wrong for me, so why am I sad they're gone? |
| 2014-07-11 | 10136 | mangoprawn | Am I a fool if I stay or am I a fool if I go? |
| 2013-12-17 | 10121 | LANA! | Advice on water damage, flood, cleanup and insurance. |
| 2014-08-23 | 10103 | Anonymous | I need help bringing a messy, inappropriate friendship to a close |
| 2018-10-12 | 10102 | sevenofspades | Messy crush situation -- feeling confused and so broken-hearted |
| 2009-11-18 | 10073 | Anonymous | Letting go of God: Help me deal with my atheism and the five stages of grief. I'm in the fourth stage now. |
| 2023-07-16 | 10053 | irish01 | How do I move on with my son? |
| 2022-07-27 | 10052 | lookoutbelow | How to do the thing when you're afraid of the thing and also feel okay |
| 2021-01-17 | 10050 | pants | Help despairing multi-cat household find peace before new baby arrives |
| 2013-03-12 | 10047 | blue_and_bronze | Spock loves Kirk but fails miserably as Troi |
| 2012-07-03 | 10045 | Someone Else's Story | Hi, we missed you! Now, can you please STFU about… [TW: Sexual Assault] |
| 2015-09-29 | 10040 | Anonymous | Your mind is telling me no... and your mind is telling me yes... |
| 2009-11-23 | 10039 | Anonymous | """What are you doing?"" ""I'm ending our friendship."" NOOOOO!" |
| 2006-04-12 | 10017 | Paul KC | My DVD burner suddenly stopped working. Is it a hardware or software issue? |
| 2014-04-23 | 9998 | Pericardium | Healing and forgiving after traumatic childhood? |
| 2010-03-25 | 9976 | Anonymous | Should I reunite with my ex-boyfriend? |
| 2019-08-09 | 9956 | SmockTheSock | Trouble with my therapist |
| 2011-11-23 | 9954 | Anonymous | Should I quit or let them fire me? |
| 2010-04-29 | 9945 | mudpuppie | There's one in every office. |
| 2010-03-02 | 9941 | MesoFilter | I want to look like a million bucks on a couple thou |
| 2013-05-19 | 9927 | Anonymous | How do I deal with someone I dated for six weeks two years ago... |
| 2020-07-12 | 9926 | snuffleupagus | Adorable stray kitten: heatwave edition |
| 2016-08-02 | 9903 | Anticipation Of A New Lover's Arrival, The | What on Earth am I to do with myself? |
| 2012-10-08 | 9899 | TomMelee | Stupid is a stupid does. |
| 2016-01-05 | 9887 | Anonymous | "Problems with my therapist. Is the answer still ""therapy""?" |
| 2012-03-26 | 9873 | bengalibelle | Will my fear of vulnerability doom me to aloneness? |
| 2012-08-02 | 9872 | peagood | """Children almost always hang onto things tighter than their parents think they will."" Right? RIGHT?! " |
| 2011-11-01 | 9861 | gregoryg | Am I just too damn judgmental? |
| 2019-03-06 | 9857 | second banana | Bi woman here; do I pursue a gay woman who's giving mixed signals? |
| 2018-11-18 | 9857 | wooh | Looking for advice on planning two trips to Japan to study Japanese |
| 2014-01-03 | 9849 | christiehawk | Kiss Out Of Nowhere, Now I'm Confused |
| 2017-03-02 | 9839 | Dendrites | How to manage internalized sexism and gender-based anguish |