| Date | Post |
|---|
| 2020-02-13 | My memoir was accepted for publication but I'm nixing it. YAY or NAY? |
| 2020-02-08 | I can feel my heart chakra? Now what?? |
| 2020-02-02 | What should I be when I grow up? |
| 2020-01-01 | Seasonal wildlife events in the San Francisco Bay area? |
| 2019-11-16 | Got a new job offer. Can someone help me out deciding? |
| 2019-11-10 | should I stay or... you know the gist |
| 2019-10-08 | Help me not ruin my hiking vacation |
| 2019-07-29 | Too Many Passions and Butt in Chair Problems |
| 2019-07-26 | How can I briefly stall on an offer? I'm working with recruiters. |
| 2019-06-05 | "Are ""interest-free"" cell phone purchase plans REALLY interest-free?" |
| 2019-06-04 | Finding a TED talk about war, community and feelings of belongingness |
| 2019-06-01 | Mistake on Taxes |
| 2019-04-26 | What are the benefits of giving out an address that isn't yours? |
| 2019-03-08 | Advice on making a career move to climate change education/outreach |
| 2019-02-05 | Risk averse parents who use emotional blackmail |
| 2018-12-29 | How can I strengthen my relationship with my younger sister-in-law? |
| 2018-12-29 | Exercising better down where it's wetter |
| 2018-12-28 | Exercising better down where it's wetter |
| 2018-12-23 | Quit playing with fire!! |
| 2018-12-21 | Tell me when it's decorative gourd season, motherfuckers! |
| 2018-11-22 | Coping with narcissistic houseguest |
| 2018-11-22 | Coping with narcissistic houseguest |
| 2018-11-20 | Should I cut my losses or give friendship a chance? |
| 2018-10-29 | I was uncomfortable, but I couldn't say why. Help me figure this out! |
| 2018-10-29 | I was uncomfortable, but I couldn't say why. Help me figure this out! |
| 2018-10-05 | Hey there, can I borrow the product of your blood, sweat and tears? |
| 2018-10-02 | Please give me resources on CPTSD (YNM mental health professional) |
| 2018-09-12 | Going to law school in your 40s: Worst idea ever? |
| 2018-09-08 | Afraid of bringing mold into new apartment |
| 2018-08-13 | Dating on the Other Side of the Train Tracks |
| 2018-07-12 | Worried about my sick father in another state... |
| 2018-07-09 | Please answer the question |
| 2018-06-23 | Best Way to Approach Former Work Acquaintance Now at 'Menial' Job? |
| 2018-06-16 | Rumination, rumination, rumination |
| 2018-06-15 | You're not the piano man |
| 2018-06-15 | You're not the piano man |
| 2018-06-12 | You can't do that on work time |
| 2018-06-04 | My employer eliminated my dept today. What do I do now? |
| 2018-06-01 | Just been thrown out of my friend's house; I was rude, but now what? |
| 2018-05-30 | Find my tribe or climb the ladder? |
| 2018-05-13 | Relationship troubles at a boiling point |
| 2018-04-21 | Toxic employee strikes again! |
| 2018-04-17 | How to write personal letter as a single home buyer? |
| 2018-04-02 | Pros and cons of a 9-5 job |
| 2018-03-22 | Camper van living |
| 2018-03-17 | Got some extra $, best charity? |
| 2018-03-06 | chemistry, desires, connection, the slog of dating |
| 2018-03-06 | I am desperately bored. |
| 2018-03-03 | Advice on reconnecting with a 14yo niece after her mom’s death |
| 2018-02-04 | Encouraging a relation to better face their spouse's cancer? |
| 2018-01-27 | I can't; I'm busy in 2023. |
| 2018-01-15 | Late 20s adult woman suffering from teenage-like crush needs help |
| 2018-01-10 | Break our hearts now, later or something else? |
| 2018-01-09 | Break our hearts now, later or something else? |
| 2017-12-31 | How to not ANGRY at mildly wrong spouse? |
| 2017-12-31 | How to not ANGRY at mildly wrong spouse? |
| 2017-12-01 | What are other words that are both birds and non-birds? |
| 2017-11-30 | Roommate moving sooner than expected and it feels...not nice |
| 2017-11-29 | moving forward, but towards different goals |
| 2017-11-27 | How can I honestly be there for my mother? |
| 2017-11-20 | Does split bills = cheap ? ( asking for splitting within 3rd dates) |
| 2017-11-19 | What to do with my (literal) emotional baggage? |
| 2017-11-13 | I hurt a friend and I'm not sure how to proceed |
| 2017-11-07 | I abandoned my career and I don't know what to do next. |
| 2017-11-01 | How to decline a job offer, edition 876 |
| 2017-10-19 | How do I detoxify my marriage? |
| 2017-10-19 | Actual best way to clean e.g. extensive tile floors, stone showers, etc? |
| 2017-10-11 | I love you...sober you |
| 2017-09-27 | How to help an 11yo kid escape from a malignant narcissist parent? |
| 2017-09-22 | "What's the best way to ""cool down"" a relationship (poly)" |
| 2017-09-12 | This back and forth is killing me! |
| 2017-08-30 | Should I take this job offer? |
| 2017-08-25 | Please help me unpack this |
| 2017-08-05 | down to my last fraying wires, practical steps needed |
| 2017-07-22 | Montezombie |
| 2017-07-21 | My love language is quality time - his may not be/not a planner. Help! |
| 2017-06-14 | How can I become more sex positive and embrace sexuality after trauma? |
| 2017-05-23 | How do I get over my insecurities? |
| 2017-05-22 | Neighbor's kitty is cute and sweet and neglected - what to do? |
| 2017-04-17 | I need to get psychological help but I'm afraid of not having job |
| 2017-04-16 | How to get career and life advice - fast! |
| 2017-03-24 | Name the Blog - Round 367! |
| 2017-03-17 | How do I fill out my self-assessment in appropriate corporate-speak? |
| 2017-02-21 | Friends til the end? |
| 2017-02-20 | Just cough it up! |
| 2017-02-04 | Supporting depressed friend in abusive relationship, and protecting self |
| 2017-02-02 | Yes, Boss I'd like to work on the proj- zzz zzz zzz |
| 2017-01-27 | Will my book club turn into a job interview? |
| 2017-01-14 | Need pragmatic advice for a friend who is suffering spousal abuse |
| 2017-01-13 | NPD FIL's birthday dinner - shutting down pessimism |
| 2017-01-13 | NPD FIL's birthday dinner - shutting down pessimism |
| 2017-01-09 | What are good ground rules to ask for as a condition for moving back in? |
| 2017-01-09 | What are good ground rules to ask for as a condition for moving back in? |
| 2016-12-27 | How to get over what I may or may not have done to my fiance? |
| 2016-12-27 | How to get over what I may or may not have done to my fiance? |
| 2016-12-24 | how to wait tables? |
| 2016-12-20 | How to call out and back out of disingenuous political conversation |
| 2016-11-30 | Can you talk me down from my anxiety? |
| 2016-11-30 | Can you talk me down from my anxiety? |
| 2016-11-25 | Sitcoms where the characters get to progress toward their goals? |
| 2016-11-24 | gift idea future bro-in-law |
| 2016-11-24 | gift idea future bro-in-law |
| 2016-10-21 | Is this bullshit or am I nuts? Workplace edition. |
| 2016-10-11 | Ever seen red flags that weren't actually red flags? |
| 2016-09-22 | How do you move beyond betrayal? |
| 2016-09-20 | How do you move beyond betrayal? |
| 2016-09-17 | Work life balance between spouses |
| 2016-09-09 | Friends with an ex's BFF? |
| 2016-09-02 | Parenting (?) Dilemma |
| 2016-08-26 | Questions for experts on domestic violence. |
| 2016-07-19 | Halp me choose an inexpensive laptop |
| 2016-06-22 | Snappy comebacks for when people joke about my name |
| 2016-06-09 | things to do to avoid slipping back into troubled relationship |
| 2016-06-07 | Renting in San Francisco - Young and Broke edition. |
| 2016-05-22 | Please help me stop reading Seveneves |
| 2016-05-22 | Grief at work |
| 2016-05-19 | California Dreamin': Road Trip Edition |
| 2016-05-09 | can I make a living writing grants? |
| 2016-05-05 | Is my OKCupid okay, cupids? |
| 2016-05-05 | Is my OKCupid okay, cupids? |
| 2016-02-02 | Some of my coworkers are incompetent. Help me be less annoyed by them. |
| 2016-01-07 | Resources for healing a troubled community group |
| 2016-01-05 | Scared for my puppy, please help! |
| 2015-12-27 | How do you determine whom to talk to when the depression returns? |
| 2015-12-26 | How to be okay with the ex-wife at Christmas (and other family events) |
| 2015-12-13 | Tell me this isn't limerence |
| 2015-12-11 | One damn thing after another, right? |
| 2015-12-09 | End of an intimate relationship. How do I stay positive? |
| 2015-12-01 | 365 days of intentional outdoor activity for Xmas |
| 2015-11-20 | Interview filter: how to negotiate questions about diversity? |
| 2015-09-27 | Getting closer with a work friend when you have a bit of a crush too... |
| 2015-09-12 | Moving in together: boring, practical, preliminary edition |
| 2015-09-12 | Question about rock climbing etiquette |
| 2015-09-10 | Can stress make you reconsider relationships? |
| 2015-09-07 | navigating work in non-profits |
| 2015-09-02 | When to start a family - how to find our bearings? |
| 2015-09-01 | I like big butts and I cannot lie... |
| 2015-08-29 | The best way to structure a relationship hiatus? |
| 2015-08-27 | I have to cancel last minute on attending a wedding. How to communicate? |
| 2015-06-25 | They don't want to be in Supper Club anymore, but won't say it |
| 2015-05-17 | As an introvert, I struggle to meet women outside of work |
| 2015-04-21 | Strategies to overcome insecurity/jealousy of husband's female friend? |
| 2015-04-18 | """You can't handle the truth!"" But I need to learn how to..." |
| 2015-04-15 | Same-field-friends, sensitive to each other's success or lack thereof... |
| 2015-04-11 | Married and having dreams about exes. What to do? |
| 2015-04-07 | Should I accept a risky (but fun) job or stay at my decent, stable job? |
| 2015-03-29 | Maintaining anonymity/privacy with multiple Twitter accounts |
| 2015-03-07 | What would people want to salvage from ruins of the global warming? |
| 2015-03-06 | How do you change your style of motivation? |
| 2015-03-05 | Boyfriend bad juju beanplating |
| 2015-03-04 | Why can't I get/keep a job? |
| 2015-02-28 | Isolating myself as a reaction to work stress |
| 2015-02-20 | Addicted, Adopted and Felon |
| 2015-02-02 | Are bedbugs really endemic on Long Island? |
| 2015-01-31 | How do you leave work at work? |
| 2015-01-30 | How to get someone to STFU and go away |
| 2015-01-30 | How to get someone to STFU and go away |
| 2015-01-29 | How to get someone to STFU and go away |
| 2015-01-22 | Alarm clock anxiety |
| 2015-01-19 | How to handle this carpet damage vis-a-vis my landlords? |
| 2015-01-09 | Dear prof, you're the only helpful member of my committee. Please leave. |
| 2015-01-09 | Talking to My Narcissist Parents After a Psych Hospitalization |
| 2014-12-30 | Dealing with the fact that someone you loved was not who you thought? |
| 2014-12-28 | How to improve my relationship with my mom |
| 2014-12-22 | How to deal with not dealing with things well |
| 2014-12-21 | What should the future with my ex look like? |
| 2014-12-15 | Never mix friends and business! Lesson learned. |
| 2014-12-13 | Made a mistake last night - how to improve the situation |
| 2014-12-12 | My sister constantly asks me if I'm okay |
| 2014-12-11 | "Is this what ""goal accomplished"" should feel like?" |
| 2014-11-22 | How do we holiday? |
| 2014-11-20 | Boyfriend doesn't want to live together. Am I deluding myself? |
| 2014-11-11 | Could you give me tips on navigating hostilities at work? |
| 2014-11-03 | Almost-instant meals |
| 2014-10-24 | How best to protect a child when my ex brings him into our arguments? |
| 2014-10-24 | Can you explain how feelings work? |
| 2014-09-18 | Two polar opposite friends clashing, who would've guessed? |
| 2014-09-18 | Self- sabotage: A beast with two heads |
| 2014-08-22 | I'm either insulted or over reacting |
| 2014-08-19 | How to deal with the anxiety of approaching my late 20s |
| 2014-07-03 | Helping him but not forcing it |
| 2014-07-03 | Family suicide complicated by lack of communication: is it ADHD? |
| 2014-06-28 | gimmie shelter |
| 2014-05-07 | How much did I contribute to my mom staying in her abusive marriage? |
| 2014-05-07 | How much did I contribute to my mom staying in her abusive marriage? |
| 2014-05-04 | Should my husband acknowledge his son's graduation? |
| 2014-05-01 | How can I practice gratitude while recognizing and fighting injustice? |
| 2014-05-01 | Great job or great organization? |
| 2014-04-19 | should I attend estranged sister's babyshower? |
| 2014-04-02 | Quick to anger, implode and then shake really bad |
| 2014-03-25 | Can this relationship be saved? |
| 2014-03-25 | Can this relationship be saved? |
| 2014-03-07 | What do you do when reason fails? |
| 2014-03-01 | How to endure a physically exhausting and mentally draining job? |
| 2014-02-25 | How best to handle moving out technically TONIGHT? |
| 2014-02-25 | How best to handle moving out technically TONIGHT? |
| 2014-02-24 | How best to handle moving out technically TONIGHT? |
| 2014-01-07 | Ah, the joys of beanplating |
| 2014-01-06 | SO's Sick mother- not sure how to deal with her asking my SO to move in |
| 2013-12-21 | Feel good movies and TV shows. |